Anonymous asked:
so what happens if you find your soulmate, get married have children and grow old with him, what do you think happens once you get to the afterlife?
.. I think I’ll have left a legacy behind for my children; a legacy that they can look back on and be humble about because I will teach them to not take anything for granted.
Anonymous asked:
Do you think your boyfriend went to Heaven?
I think he went wherever he wanted to go.
Anonymous asked:
I hope that you are really proud of yourself. You honestly should be. I hope that you have the best life. You deserve it. You really do.
Meh. I’m proud I went to college. haha.
the4ofhearts asked:
I think you're the most beautiful person I've ever come across. I've followed you for quite some time now. And, every post that you post about your loss, I read. I can't tell you what makes me want to read all your personal thoughts when I, personally do not know you at all. But everything you have to say about him, you and your recovery journey.. It's so touching. It's comforting that something so tragic can happen in a young persons life and yet, she can move forward and learn from it. I admire you, I adore you.
This may sound silly and may be something you really don't want to read. But I'm a girlfriend to this boy, a wonderful and sweet boy. And I hate to admit, but have come to admit, that I took advantage of having someone love me so much. I took it for granted, completely. But I read your posts and see your struggles and see how you're doing everything you can to recover and it's made me realize life is way too short to not pay extra attention to those people that love you, because in a split second your world can be turned upside down. And, although it's been said by so many people over and over, for some reason it was your posts that have opened my eyes. I want to thank you for voicing your struggles and journey publicly - making it possible to open mine and I'll assume many other peoples eyes, I want to congratulate you for how strong you must be to go through all of this, and I want you to know you're incredible.
I know it'll never go away, that's just how loss works, it sticks. But I hope that as time keeps going on that you recover even more than you have now, and that your life is as wonderful as you.
<3
:) that was sweet. I’m super happy you don’t take things for granted! It honestly means a lot to me, and reinforces that I did the right thing with my blog! <3
Anonymous asked:
“You’ll get over it…” It’s the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don’t get over it because ‘it” is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never loses. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not made anodyne by death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no-one else can fit it. Why would I want them to?”
— Jeanette Winterson
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paigekathleen asked:
I admire you so much. You are such a strong person considering everything you've gone through. I know if it were me, i wouldn't have been able to handle it and go on with my life. Stay strong tomorrow and have an amazing day. :)
:) Everyone goes through struggles on a daily basis. Don’t say you couldn’t handle it, because I’m sure you are capable of handling much greater things, darling!<3
thank you!
Anonymous asked:
If you don't mind me asking, what exactly did you put in that green apple juice? Was it just a blended green apple or did you put something else in it. Haha, sorry if this is a dumb question, but it actually looked really good.
It was just 2 large green apples juiced! super good. Didn’t taste tart at all!
onzeavril asked:
"Heres my voice mail to you"
that line broke me down, so much. 10 years ago my grandfather passed away and I was never able to say goodbye to him. I mean he said goodbye to me, but I was too busy with my cousins in my jacuzzi to get out and acknowledge him and say goodbye. I never got hug him, or kiss him goodbye. that night he passed away, with his last were " say goodbye to madi"..
I still haven't gotten over his death, but i've bee feeling better lately so just keep your head up high.
<3 I’m so sorry for your loss, sweetie. Don’t fault yourself though, okay? It wasn’t planned. <3<3 Thank you though. :)
Anonymous asked:
I couldn't imagine being in love with someone, depending on him, trusting him, and then having something so tragic happen to him.
I usually don't get teary or emotional reading sad stories on the internet. I definitely always have empathy but just reading the "about me"section on this tumblr makes me tear up. damn.
Anyways I have to say I think you are so fucking cool and beautiful. you two seem so lucky to have had each other.
Yeah it fucking sucks… thanks though haha
mistakesmakememories-deactivate asked:
Hi Taylor :)
We're spoken briefly before.. just when I popped a message round to tell you how sorry I was that you lost Rodney. I hope you're getting stronger by the day and I hope you're okay in general. I know I'm no help living on the other side of the world but I guess knowing someone is there is reassuring, people who adore you on Tumblr who are willing to be there for you :)
Anyway, I just wanted to make sure.. and also I was talking to my friend about your story the other day, she was definitely in shock like she was literally like WOW. :O I guess your strength inspired her :) I was also telling her about the quote 'You and I will be my greatest accomplishment' which I love. Is that a quote you and Rodney made? I wanted to put it up on a part of theme on Tumblr, but I wanted to ask you first if it's okay because I think they are your words. If you're not okay with it please tell me and I won't do it :)
Lots of love,
Nethmi <3
:) Thank you Nethmi! i love your name! So pretty!!
I’m pretty sure he said “you and I is my greatest accomplishment” but he wasn’t the best with writing things out ;) heheh anyway, I don’t mind!! :) <3<3<3
thanks for asking though!!
